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Topic: Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace
Posted by: Dan Murphy
Date/Time: 25/06/15 11:03:00

Gabriella, sounds like you might have triggered this little outburst from him. Did you walk over calmly and say "Excuse me, I just need to let you know I am in the process of paying by Ringo, in case that is a ticket you are writing out". Or did you approach him in a cross manner and say "Hey, that the hell are you doing? Don't you know the meters are out of order so I have to pay by Ringo?"

If it was more the latter (you don't say, so we don't know), perhaps he was taken aback and responded in a defensive / aggressive manner?

In an ideal world, we would all be sweetness and light to each other, there would be no abuse, and everyone would be living in perfect harmony. But of course, we are always rubbing each other up the wrong way, sometimes deliberately and sometimes inadvertently.

It sounds like one of those little clashes that happen from time to time. If you try and make a formal complaint it will not get you anywhere. He will say you were abusing him and you will say he was abusing you. End of.

My advice would be to ignore it and put it down to experience. If you get all fuming about it you will only make yourself cross and stressed. In the grand scheme of things, it really doesn't sound all that bad, they way you recount it. Just a few ill chosen words, no real harm done surely?


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TopicDate PostedPosted By
Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 10:32:00 Gabriella Newbold
   Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 11:03:00 Dan Murphy
      Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 11:35:00 Paul Pryce
         Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 12:53:00 Dan Murphy
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 17:45:00 Anita Blake
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 06:54:00 Dan Murphy
   Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 11:33:00 Anne England
      Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 11:58:00 Claire Moran
         Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 18:36:00 Anne England
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 18:45:00 Carl Wynne
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 19:47:00 Anne England
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 20:04:00 Carl Wynne
   Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 11:57:00 Alison Neary
   Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 12:39:00 Felicity Caborn
      Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 20:38:00 bobby osborne
         Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 10:19:00 Adrian Irving
   Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace25/06/15 22:56:00 Louise Cole
      Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 07:38:00 Micki Hawkes
         Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 08:17:00 James Robinson
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 08:23:00 Gabriella Newbold
               Victim blaming26/06/15 09:06:00 Dan Evans
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 10:51:00 Anne England
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 11:31:00 Robert Fish
                     Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 11:50:00 Dan Murphy
                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 12:05:00 Gabriella Newbold
                           Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 14:54:00 Dan Murphy
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 14:57:00 Robert Fish
                                 Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 15:14:00 Dan Murphy
                                    Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 15:31:00 Robert Fish
                                       Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 17:27:00 Felicity Caborn
                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 12:20:00 Robert Fish
                           Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 14:39:00 Maggie Dodge
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 18:43:00 Brian Coyle
                                 Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace26/06/15 18:53:00 Robert Fish
                                 Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Abusive traffic wardens on Heathfield terrace28/06/15 05:46:00 Irma Hamilton-Hunt

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