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Topic: How Others See Us
Posted by: Francis Rowe
Date/Time: 12/12/14 16:58:00

Although I now make a meagre living selling a magazine which raises awareness of the issue outside a supermarket in Chiswick I feel I am relatively lucky. This country enjoys peace and stability whereas the war torn country I come from is afflicted with ethnic strife. I was grateful to be given asylum here but many of my friends and relations were not and have been killed.

People here are generally kind and if they do not give money they often smile or look embarrassed that they have not. Some take the time to talk. One or two men are rude. They remind me of people from home whose lives have been a failure which they come to blame on people from different ethnics groups rather than admitting they could be at fault.

For one woman I occasionally look after her dogs while she shops. For this she gives me a small amount of money. I don't particularly like her dogs and she makes a great display of giving me the money but I am not in a position to be choosy.

One day she brought me a sandwich instead of cash for the service I provide her. It was a variety of sandwich I don't like and I would prefer the money as I consider paying for a pre-made sandwich wasteful. She was very cross when I said I didn't want the sandwich and accused me of ingratitude and lacking in Christmas spirit. She said she would tell as many people as possible about how her good deed was not appreciated. Perhaps she hopes fewer people will buy my magazine.

She will tell you I lack what she calls Christmas goodwill. I do not know what that is but judging by her actions it is something I can do without.


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Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 10:48:00 Loraine Pemberton
   Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 11:07:00 Pete Mayes
      Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 11:11:00 Vanessa Smith
         Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 11:19:00 Pete Mayes
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 11:24:00 Pete Mayes
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 11:32:00 Gordon McDonald
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 11:39:00 Keith Iddon
                     Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:19:00 Nigel Brooks
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 11:42:00 Pete Mayes
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:55:00 Anne England
         Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:00:00 Loraine Pemberton
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:04:00 Loraine Pemberton
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:11:00 Shelagh Lafferty
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:14:00 Loraine Pemberton
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:09:00 Pete Mayes
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:12:00 Loraine Pemberton
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:20:00 Richard Greenhough
                     Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:32:00 Philippa Bond
                     Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 13:30:00 Loraine Pemberton
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:18:00 Charlotte Kasner
                     Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:30:00 Shelagh Lafferty
                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:56:00 Nigel Brooks
                           Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 15:18:00 Shelagh Lafferty
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 17:45:00 Nigel Brooks
   Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:37:00 Helle Kaiser-Nielsen
      Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:42:00 Pete Mayes
         Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 12:47:00 Pete Mayes
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 13:18:00 Brian Coyle
               Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 13:45:00 Julian Pavey
                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 13:58:00 Loraine Pemberton
                     Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:05:00 Colin Wren
                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:07:00 Carl Wynne
                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:21:00 Adrian Irving
                           Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 14:29:00 Colin Wren
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 15:12:00 bobby osborne
                                 Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 15:42:00 Loraine Pemberton
                                    Re: milk of human kindness..12/12/14 16:45:00 Stuart Kerr
                                    How Others See Us12/12/14 16:58:00 Francis Rowe
                                       Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 17:04:00 Helle Kaiser-Nielsen
                                          Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 17:07:00 Pete Mayes
                                             Re:Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 17:15:00 Shelagh Lafferty
                                       Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 17:13:00 Shelagh Lafferty
                                          Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 17:28:00 Francis Rowe
                                          Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 17:35:00 Pete Mayes
                                             Re:Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 17:55:00 Shelagh Lafferty
                                                Re:Re:Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 18:04:00 Nigel Brooks
                                                   Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 19:02:00 Richard Greenhough
                                                      Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 19:18:00 Carl Wynne
                                                         Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 19:30:00 Nigel Brooks
                                                      Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 19:29:00 Nigel Brooks
                                          Re:Re:How Others See Us12/12/14 19:00:00 Richard Greenhough
   Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 17:13:00 Adrian Irving
      Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 17:16:00 Pete Mayes
         Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 17:23:00 Shelagh Lafferty
      Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 17:22:00 Loraine Pemberton
         Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 17:50:00 Nigel Brooks
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 18:00:00 Loraine Pemberton
         Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 18:07:00 Adrian Irving
            Re:Re:Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 18:27:00 Nigel Brooks
      Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 18:03:00 Loraine Pemberton
   Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 20:35:00 Helle Kaiser-Nielsen
      Re:Re:Goodwill at Christmas? 12/12/14 21:36:00 Pete Mayes
         Re: local beggars....13/12/14 11:16:00 Stuart Kerr
            Re:Re: local beggars....14/12/14 11:53:00 Anne England

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